It was the year 2011. My life was slowly beginning to fall apart. I had lost some close friends I trusted, was lied to by multiple people, lost a job, lost one of my best friends to a tragic death, and I had moved back home with my mom and was sleeping on the couch and in a bed on the floor in the basement.
Everything seemed dark to me. I wasn’t questioning God and wondering why I was going through this valley. I understood life is not perfect, and everyone at some point has to go through something tough, I was just wondering how long the dark season would last.
I don’t know about you, but when I am in darkness, my heart, my thoughts and my emotions seem to be off. My heart is usually heavy, my thoughts are distorted, and my emotions aren’t as controlled as I would like them to be.
So what did I do?
I got away…
The summer of 2011, I spent in another state with one of my closest friends. I had saved up some money before I lost my job. I just needed to get away from home, gather my thoughts, think a lot and begin to work on what my next steps would be.
We can only be in the valley for so long. At some point, we have to come back up.
Feeling lost, out of place, not significant and wondering when a change was coming, I decided I would not complain and mope around. Instead, I would fight back. Yes, the universe and my world were dark, but there is a greater power in me that is capable of shining light.
I needed God to begin shining His light!
My friend that I was staying with in 2011 summer, I remember attending a church service with him. I don’t remember what the minister was saying; I just know I got extremely emotional and began to cry. I remember my friend looking at me in disbelief and shock as if he’d never seen a “grown man” cry.
At this moment, he didn’t judge, or tell me to suck it up. Instead he asked was I okay and just put his arm around me (I guess he gave me a bro hug).
I just needed support. I was grieving and mourning for months. The weight of the world and all of my thoughts got too heavy for me to carry alone. So I just cried. I let it out and released everything. I’ve learned that crying is good for the soul and as ET the Hip Hop Preacher once said: “Don’t cry to quit. Cry to keep going.” That’s what I was doing.
The darkness began to fade away, and I knew one day God would allow the light to get brighter.
All felt lost and apart but having friends and a God that cares, I knew there was hope. 2011 was one of the worst years of my life. Tough as that year was, I needed to go through it. My valley experience in 2011 allowed me to see and feel what it is like to do life alone. I’ll end with this: Life is not meant to be experienced alone.
From the bottom of my heart. I love you. I thank you for reading this. God is good even when it feels like everything has fell apart.
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Thanks for sharing Scotty !! Seems like your Blog posts are always on time ! God bless ! On Mar 14, 2016 6:25 AM, “J. Scott Samarco” wrote:
> J Scott Samarco posted: ” The battle. It was the year 2011. My life was > slowly beginning to fall apart. I had lost some close friends I trusted, > was lied to by multiple people, lost a job, lost one of my best friends to > a tragic death, and I had moved back home with my mom an” >
I never knew you were feeling like this… Glad to hear it. You helped someone with this. Thank you babe. I love you 😘
So thankful for this post bro, I’m sad that you was going through so much. Just know even my big brother even goes through tough trials but over came those barriers and now you have a powerful testimony bro! Love you, ryssa ❤
Wow definitely feel like I’m in that season of darkness. Thanks for encouraging me:)
Continued to be encouraged. Out of the darkness the Son will shine His light on your life.